Lunch with PRODUCT ADDICT: Holiday Cheer Starts With Politeness

My topic today stems from an experience I had at Costco a couple of weeks ago. Of course, the samples were out, and I went to one table to get a couple of tasters for myself. I told the woman, "Thank you" — as this is my standard response when I receive something from someone. She looked at me and replied, "You do not know how nice it is to hear that."

Awkward silence.

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I was speechless. Honestly, I do not remember what I said. What I do remember is that I was sad and disappointed, yet not surprised.

Society's levels of politeness, common courtesy, and mutual respect have deteriorated to appalling lows. It started some time ago, and, with the prevalence of technology and social media, it has just gone downhill fast. Now that we are hiding behind computer screens and phones, we do not place the same value on the importance of interpersonal communication.

Simply A Smile Can Help
Often, it is the small things that make a big difference. Holding a door open, a smile. Making a connection. My neighbor, whom I am not that friendly with, helped me clear a foot of snow off of my driveway and sidewalk recently. Good Samaritans do exist, and helping someone does not have a one-size-fits-all requirement.

The holidays are a busy, stressful time of year — for everyone. So, while we are may be aggravated to wait in yet another line at the store, the person working at the register has been standing in the same spot for hours.

Let's all try to take a few deep breaths, be a bit more patient and understanding, and acknowledge others in a kind way.

If I instill one thing into my future children, it will be the importance of politeness, common courtesy, and respect. I am going to make an extra effort this holiday season. Will you join me?



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